Sunday, November 11, 2007

How To Save A Relationship

How to save a relationship alone...

I get the opportunity to review a lot of products that come across my desk, so its easy to lose interest in a lot of what I see. That was, until recently when I met Amy Waterman. Amy, online author of Save My Marriage Today Asked me to have a look over her book and tell her what I thought. At first I was skeptical, but I thought, hey, I have friends who are in bad marriages, and this information might be good for one of them, so I decided to read it closely. By the time I had finished, I was hooked! I realized for the first time, that this book would be really helpful for couples with marital difficulties. I don’t just mean young couples either. This book applies to couples young and old. So I thought I would share this book with you too.

You CAN learn how to resolve your damaging conflicts and rebuild the lost love in your relationship or marriage today.

Amy's book, Save My Marriage Today, teaches you everything you need:

Discover one of the most destructive things in a marriage crisis that you're probably doing. It usually leads to divorce, so you'd better listen up and learn how to break free from this and replace this with more constructive habits.

The 3 things that most people do to win their partners back after a split. These things usually DON'T work. Find out why, and what you MUST be doing instead to win back your marriage!

The one thing that you absolutely HAVE to do if you are serious about saving your marriage and getting your partner to love you again.

Discover the REAL REASON why a lot of marriages fail - and what to do about it...

The essential things you must know in order to remain positive in the midst of all the negative emotions that are around you in a serious marriage problem.

There are two emotions that you are probably holding onto that make it very difficult for your spouse (and others) to be around you happily. You'll learn how to stop being a slave to your emotions.

A simple but powerful psychological trick that will help you to put your mind in a place of happiness and relaxation. Coming from this position will make it a LOT easier to save your marriage.

How to prepare yourself for the worst, so that you are fine - no matter what. This will actually give you a far higher chance of saving your marriage anyway.

Eliminate all possibility of your partner “pulling your strings” and take complete control of your emotional and internal states… no matter what the situation.

Outside-the-square tactics to really pinpoint what your issues are in your marriage. Many people discover that the REAL issues run deeper than what they think, and this pinpoint realization may be exactly what you need to get your marriage back on track.

Do you ever feel like the only way to resolve a conflict is by slamming the door and walking away? Or by punishing your partner? It doesn't have to be this way. Find out incredibly powerful strategies for resolving your marriage conflicts in a more constructive and less emotionally stressful way.

What to do if you're a person who gets frustrated at your partner's actions during an argument. she gives an in-depth look into what is actually going on in an argument ... and how to understand what your partner is doing when they are seemingly behaving irrationally and selfishly.

The 5 needs that you absolutely MUST pay attention to if you wish to achieve self-actualization as a couple. Hint: In conflicts, there tends to be an abandonment of many of these fundamental needs.

An important step-by-step exercise to identifying exactly what your needs are as a person. For the sake of your relationship, she wants you to make sure that you have these things completely fulfilled. Most people don't get their goals fulfilled, she'll show you how... even if your partner is seemingly in the way.

How to save your marriage if you have cheated on your partner.

If you are in the position where your partner has cheated on you, your trust in them is likely to be shattered. She guides you through how to survive an affair and save your marriage if you have been cheated on.

The single most important thing that you MUST do in order for love to return to your relationship. You're probably overlooking it - most people do - but it is easy to remedy and will make all the difference in the world towards bringing the love back into your marriage.

How to get your mindset out of the negative and into the positive. You'll learn how to become your own life coach and guide your marriage to success without needing the help of anyone else.

When your partner withdraws, do you feel cold and lonely? You need to know exactly how to look after yourself, and how to keep your mood elevated. People often overlook taking care of themselves in these situations. She shows you what to do.

How to get out of the vicious cycle of reacting to problems, conflicts and situations, and move towards acting proactively. This might sound easy, but there are critical steps that you need to take, and she guides you through them.

Discover the truth about trial separations. How to make them work if it is forced upon you and mistakes that most people make that cause them to NOT work.

Find out secrets to saving your marriage if you and your spouse do not live together.

What to do if you are disappointed in how your spouse treats you.

The secrets of a loving and fulfilling relationship: what must happen to keep BOTH OF YOU from screwing it up.

How to manage your anger in conflict situations so that you react more thoughtfully than pig-headed in times of stress and arguments.

How to calm down in times of anger when you get yourself all worked up.

How to react so that you can communicate with your partner and diffuse the situation before it gets out of hand.

Read the rest of what Amy's book offers at the Save My Marriage website. Follow her techniques and save your marriage.

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